then you have the women who have confidence in themselves and then dress in the clothes that fit them the best.. that look good on them. They take care of themselves... they don't let hair get oily and tangled and rats nest like, they keep their face clean and breakout free, they don't cake on makeup in 9 layers where you can see the line of makeup on the edge of the face.
they know what they got and they show it off and smartly conceal what is not so attractive.. I'm heavy... and i'll proudly admit it. I'm overweight. but i'm comfortable in my skin. I know i have nice hair and eyes so i dress to compliment them. I also know i've got nice boobs so i wear a lower cut to show them off a little more.. but my stomach is never exposed, my pants aren't painted on... my shirts are a little tight but not the ugly tight, they just hug a little... and it looks good on me.
On top of that... I smile alot more because i'm happy with myself. Smiles are always attractive. Once someone gets to know me more they'll see i don't whine about being fat i don't complain that modern life did this too me by brainwashing me with fast food.. They'll notice that I take care of myself and i stay withing my limitations and when they can see that amount of self respect it makes everyone around you feel good and when that happens beauty radiates from everyoneHow are beauty and confidence interlinked?
hi gloria! Well beauty and cofidence are interlinked because 9 out of ten times if you have outward beauty you are likely to recieve more compliments/attention so your confidence is boosted, it takes a special person to see inner beauty aswell. every one is beautiful in there own right, but if your told you are beautiful alot it changes the way you carry yourself, you will hold your head up high and feel beautiful, whereas if you dont feel beautiful you are more likely to shy away even though you may have inner beauty. hope this helps xxHow are beauty and confidence interlinked?
i don't think they are,
i know many a 'beautiful' person who have no confidence at all!! and visa versa!
they aren't necessarily. a lot of beautiful people go to therapy because they have low confidence, particularly women.
mostly it's because they feel that's all other people see, or want from them. it's not because of the vanity side, as in being scared of loosing their looks as they get older. it's because, they get treated more as a commodity, rather than a whole person, with more than just good looks.
I dont think that they always are. Some of the most beautiful women in the world are the least confident, because they know that beauty fades and that is terrifying. Often beautiful women feel that they have only their looks to depend on and once that is gone, thats it. Because of this, they have very little confidence.
there not,
confidence is people's view of them self.
no such links.it is only an intution
For women, there's a strong link...too strong. Coco Chanel said there is no such thing as an unattractive woman, just lazy women....
There is a lot of pressure for both men and women to work towards this, at any cost!
If your beautiful I think it's like you have a golden ticket; you can get away with more, people are more interested in you, they encourage you and like you more. That's why you get more confidence.
I have to say, I know many attractive women, I used to work on a make up counter and I found that so many of these girls were emotionally undeveloped. They staked too much in how they look as if someone (parents/society) had told them it was going to be enough to get by and they just stopped growing as personalities. None of them were especially confident with men or women. They felt they were dumb, I just thought that they were lazy...'there's no such thing as a thick beautiful woman, just a lazy one...';
My sister was always praised for being very beautiful, and she is...she is very confident, but it's always as if there is nothing to back it up. She always used to say ';my face is my fortune';, sad I know, but she ended up marrying rich, trying to fit in with the welly brigade and failing.
There was nothing to back any of it up, she ended up having panic attacks and getting depression. I don't think this would have happened if when she was 17 she followed her goals to be a artist.(she is a phenomenal painter but hasn't painted anything since about 17), instead, she found she got lots of nice attention from men and other women and allowed herself to be reduced to a mere sex object. Her confidence soared within this role, she became someone all her fellas had to tip-toe around; getting more and more unbearable, no one stood up to her very much. her relationships crumble and she's getting older now with a few kids and paranoid about losing her looks.
She has nothing else to fall back on, no lessons learned. She still says ';I deserve better than this';...it's tragic really. Beauty can be a curse on some people...I wonder what she would have been like if her nose had been a bit crooked or her smile not as dazzling...
where as I was a ugly duckling for a long while...I built up my confidence from studying, reading, writing, being a good friends and working at relationships. I'm not as beautiful as my sister but I am a lot more confident.
If a woman thinks she looks good on the outside, it can improve her self esteem. This means that she gains a whole new outlook on herself based on her outward appearance.
they shouldnt be.........
They are not linked very well.For example fashion models are known for their substance abuse,at least in the UK,like kate moss.Therefore confidence does not increase with beauty.
beauty is skin deep but its the outside that gets you noticed, the positive attention can build a persons confidence
Because when you look beautiful on the outside it reflects in your personality and when you look in the mirror and think positive thoughts such as 'oh my hair looks lovley today' you will get postive thoughts about yourself which are the basics of confidence.
Both go together.
When you know that you are beautiful, not to mention the physical appearance, but in general, you will also have that confidence to deal with other people.
So the two, BEAUTY %26amp; CONFIDENCE interlinked each other.
We know of beauty as an appearance of the physical self of a girl / women; and confidence as the ability within of the self to perform tasks skillfully.
We know this; only as per the account of others and as per our own abilities and intelligence to know them.
In truth; beauty is the ability of an individual; to enable and drive his self for driving and delivering the knowledge of his self skillfully; by consciously using the nature, quality and style of working of the talent of his self instead of that of his own self; for the purpose of building confidence in the performances and in the deliverance's of his own self.
Food and the cook can be beautifully only when the cook has taken care to ensure that the food prepared by him are not only filling, but healthy and tasty too;
like wise; music, singing and dance i.e if they are really beautiful; then they are infact more beautiful than their performers.
Similarly any person can be beautiful if he takes care to ensure that the results of the work and performances of his self ; as well as that of the confidence of his self in his own self; are actions of pleasantness and satisfaction in others and are the generators of spirits of joy, love, and compassion of self in them selves.
Being beautiful is all about knowing and ensuring; that the self is a talented and skillfull deliverer of not only the goodness of the nature to the nature of self; but also of the happiness and brilliance of self into the work and actions of self; and that it has the confidence of self in self to ensure that the actions and performances of self are deliverers of constituents of welfare, welbeing and wellness and health wealth and wisdom of self to others.
The way; nature is beautifull in all its forms; as we know it to be.
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they aren't always.. I've dated some amazing looking women who were shy.
if you look nice, and get compliments.. more to do with ego than confidence, but then theres the other side of it arrogance. I date women who are humble and not up their own *coughs*.. =)
When you think you look good you feel confident. You can't help notice people who are confident and carry themselves with pride.
They aren't. A person who is not naturally beautiful, can be totally confident within themselves. And a beautiful person may not see their beauty. Beauty is inside and out.
Hi Gloria. What a contentious and interesting question. There may not be a definitive answer to this. A person with visual beauty commands the attention, perhaps unconsciously, of people of both sex, although particularly of the opposite gender. Often the beautiful person is aware of this and builds on it to their advantage.
But along with this are the different views are what beauty consists of. Sometimes it's in speech or attitudes. Often it's in confidence, thus forming a circle between beauty and confidence. Not sure if I've made it clear but I hope it makes some sense. DB
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